When I began this blog, I was fed up with
dating, and the quality of women I was meeting. I’m not going to suggest I was
always meeting women at quality places (like the café, the library, or at Mensa
meetups), but I’m also not going to suggest that quality women don’t frequent
the bar or the club. I just knew my chances of meeting the women I wanted,
wasn’t high. I continued to enter bad dates and collect horror stories, seeking salvation
from any women who would be willing to take pity on my poor soul.
This week, in particular, was filled with
meeting very impressive and high quality women, it lead me to ask, “where the
hell have y’all been?” The reality is, I wasn’t looking for them. So, what
changed?
I would like to point to the Quarterly (a
full “report” is coming next week) as the impetus for upgrading the quality of
women I’ve been meeting. Every woman at the event was professional, highly
impressive, and would make awesome dates. While much credit goes to Paul Carrick Brunson for a great event, it’s hard to
think that a speed dating event was the source of meeting great women. I’ve
been on many speed dating events, and never have had such a change. This would
also ignore the fact that, in the last 2 – 3 years I’ve changed the type of
woman I’ve sought. I want to say, I began looking for more quality women when I
first met Rule Breaker (who is an impressive, quality woman, even
though we’ve broken up), but that would ignore the great women I’ve gone on
dates with before her. I would love to think, since Single City Guy I’ve met
more of a higher quality woman, but that ignores many of the great women I’ve
met before I started this blog.
The more I think about where I’ve met
great women, the more I realize, I’ve always met great women, but have ignored them.
Some of them know this blog exists (so I might be talking about you.)
There’s many, great, impressive, quality
women in my life who, if disappeared into a black hold, would cause me to have
a major meltdown. Now, all of them aren’t so single as they were in the
not-so-distant past, and I can’t help the feeling of regret as I didn’t even
step up to the plate. When I take an honest look at my dating life, I realize
there are mistakes that I need to take responsibly for, and learn from. The
biggest lesson is recognize, appreciate, and go after the quality women in my
life, instead of waiting around. It’s a lesson that you, the reader, should
also learn.
Before you begin to meet these impressive
women, you need to know how to find them. In order to find these women, reflect
on the important women in your life. What are the attributes do they have that
you value the most? Why are they so important to you? After some reflection,
ask yourself, why haven’t you asked them out on a date? You may be surrounded
by the right type of woman, and have never, truly realized it. Great women are
found everywhere, you need to recognize them.
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