Moslitski: Sticking To Your Stereotypes

I covered this topic in Deeper Than Game, but Tazzy Bee also said something similar:

I've realized recently that when a woman approaches you , it is because she is extremely attracted to whatever stereotype you project. This means for black men , whenever a white woman approaches , its best to stick with direct / mode one type of game.

These are very true words. It's always good to be different, but it's best not to stray too far away from the stereotypes that women believe about men like you. Sure, you may get a girl that may like your uniqueness, but these women are rare. The types of women that will choose you or like you instantly, will most likely like you because of some stereotype or preconceived belief that they have about men that are similar to you (what you appear to be).

For example, if you are a black guy that hangs around white people and primarily white nightclubs like I do, then yes, you want to fit in with your white friends, but at the same time, you still want to be a black guy. It's best to fit in just enough so that you aren't an outcast, but at the same time, you want to maintain your blackness because if a girl chooses you, she most likely will choose you because of the stereotypes associated with black guys.

And let's not limit this to black guys. White guys should do the same. You need to go heavily in the direction of a rocker, fratboy, hipster, etc.,. Why? Because women who like white guys, tend to like white guys that fit one of those descriptions. It's not enough to just be a white guy; you gotta be a stereotypical white guy in one of the categories of white guys that women are attracted to.

I believe that this is the reason that when it comes to women, black guys either flourish, or they continually fail. The black guys who fail may be able to attract women with their looks, but if they've never hung around black jocks or thugs, then they have no idea of what women who choose black guys like about them. This is usually the case with black guys from the suburbs who never became jocks or spent any considerable amount of time around inner city black guys.

For example, I know of a couple of black guys that go the heavily rocker route with the crazy earrings, chains, etc. These guys are basically white guys. However, these guys don't get any women. Why not? Even when a woman is into the rocker scene who likes black guys, she probably likes black guys because of some of the stereotypes about their personalities. So what happens when these girls in the rocker scene talk to these black guys and find out that these guys are totally white? They get turned off and move on.

The same goes for older guys in general. The women that choose older men aren't looking for older men that are trying to impress them with tricks and routines. They want older men because they are stereotypically experienced, calm, confident, etc. So what happens when a chick chooses an older guy and then sees that he is performing all kinds of tricks and routines to impress her? She gets turned off and moves on.

I'm not saying that you have to play up every stereotype, afterall, my voice, style of clothing, and vocabulary is the same of a typical frat asshole white guy, but at the same time, I know how to play up the right black stereotypes. I know how to be cool, calm, dominating, etc., so I still get the girls that are into black guys without scaring them off because of not being "black enough".

No matter if you're old, black, white, hispanic, if there's something about your race, age, social class, etc., that a group of women tend to go for, then you need to play up some of the stereotypes associated with it, as the women who choose those guys, choose them for stereotypical reasons. You can still be unique and be yourself, but make sure that you don't stray too far away from what women like about guys that you are stereotyped to be like. A lot of PUAs have trouble because they don't just pick a stereotypical direction and go with it.

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If you're dating outside of your race, you obviously want to fit in culturally with whatever women you are going after, but at the same time, if there's something that is positively associated with your race, then you want to maintain it. Again, I'm a black guy that likes keggers, some rock music, and art, which makes me appealing to white girls, but at the same time, I have the positive personality traits that are associated with black guys, such as being decisive, cool, etc.

Moslitski

четверг, 3 июня 2021 г.

Sticking To Your Stereotypes

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