She knows how to weed out the “bad guys” …
She knows how to attract what she wants …
Everything she’s learning is paying off !
But now that she’s met her new man, she’s starting to freak out !!
Jake didn’t come in the package Maria expected. He’s a little younger … and different physically from what she imagined.
But he has everything and more of what she wants !!
Maria and Jake connect on so many levels and have an absolute blast together.
He’s thoughtful, kind, funny and a great kisser.
He understands and respects that she doesn’t want to have sex without a commitment … AND he doesn’t want children … which is a major deal breaker for Maria.
Maria has prayed many times for someone like Jake to show up and take her away from the dating madness.
It’s so good ! So right …
Yet, Maria feels anxious and is starting to freak out.
So what’s the problem ?? Why is Maria freaking out ??
Meeting a man like Jake was exactly what Maria wanted. She just wasn’t expecting the emotions that come along with … the vulnerability … the fear … the crazy !!
Is this normal?
Yes it is. For several reasons …
1. Fantasy Meets Reality
It’s one thing to dream of your man. It’s another to finally meet him.
In your dream … he’s pictured a certain way … he behaves a certain way … and he’s available at your convenience.
The reality is … he’s probably not going to be anything like you pictured. He’s gonna be who he is … and he’s gonna want to see you at his convenience.
When you meet your man … “freaking out” is not going to be about the man. It’s going to be about you. Here he is … the real deal. Who are you in relationship to him? Are you available to receive him? Seeing yourself reflected in the presence of a real man can be freaky indeed!
2. Too Good To Be True
When your man really, really wants you, it’s great … and it can feel overwhelming.
You imagine wonderful feelings of love and bliss. You meet him and he surpasses your imagination. Then you realize his attention can feel quite frightening. You are exposed. It’s a very vulnerable place.
You start questioning EVERYTHING … like, is he the right man? Or do you even want a man ?? Crazy, huh?
Meeting your man takes you to the deepest part of yourself and it can feel terrifying … because you have to look at who you are, what you value and your own self-worth.
Are you worthy to receive your man … if he’s “too good to be true?”
3. The Risk Factor
Meeting your man doesn’t come without a risk factor. Love in the best circumstances is still a roll of the dice.
You’re human. Amid the bliss of meeting your man lurk old fears and beliefs.
What if it doesn’t work out?
What if you lose yourself?
What if he uses you, then leaves?
There’s a lot going on.
It’s normal to freak out. When you meet your man, your life changes. Big time !
It will never be the same.
The anticipation … uncertainty … excitement … adrenaline … joy … fear … freak out … are all part of being in a new relationship with your man.
It’s a normal feeling. So, take a deep breath and relax.
The best thing you can do is stay anchored in your own self love and enjoy the ride !
To help you get started in meeting your man … or understanding what to expect when you do, order “The Role of a Lifetime: How To Star In Your Own Love Story” home study course.
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