Let’s face it: Nothing can be quite as daunting as
going on a first backpage date with the Mississippi girl of your dreams. It’s like you’re back in
junior high again and you’re desperately thinking about the best ways to make a
slamming good impression.
Well, fear not our fellow men. Today, we’re going to
pull out all the stops to make your first date as perfect as possible. Hopefully
by the end of this guide, first backpage dates won’t be too much of a rocket science.
1. Clean up nicely
Whether it’s going to be a walk in the park or a
dinner for two in Momofuku Ko, dress well. Ditch the baggy pants and long
shirts and just show her you can take care of yourself. Rolled up long sleeve
shirts is a nice casual touch and a perfectly fitting suit is enough to sweep
her off her feet. So do us all a favor and clean up nicely.
2. Ask her before taking the lead
For the most part, you’re going to be in charge but it
doesn’t hurt to ask her what she wants. Although, if she does seem uneasy
deciding, don’t hesitate to step up. Help her order when she’s fidgeting or
foot the bill when you sense her waiting.
Just don’t appear as if you’re running the entire
show. You want to make it feel like the two of you are doing this together.
3. Save the sexual compliments for later
Every decent Mississippi man should know that women are to be
treated with respect. If you want to compliment her for dressing up nicely for
your first backpage date, tell her she’s ‘beautiful’ instead of ‘smokin’ hot’.
If you take the right steps, who knows? Maybe that
sexual compliment can be used a little later.
4. No, chivalry is NOT dead!
Yes, gender equality is at its peak but it never hurts
to open the door, pull the chair or allow her to order first. If there’s one
thing the ladies like, it’s old school care and mindfulness. So even if you’re
dating an independent Mississippi woman, leave her the impression that you’re a gentleman.
5. Follow up… but don’t be pushy
That three-day rule is B.S. If you had an
unforgettable time with her, let her know right away but remember: Don’t push
it too hard. You might be squeezing too much from her just to make yourself
believe you pulled it off. It should just come naturally.
That wasn’t too hard, was it? Now go out there and
make us proud!
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