Wondering why
you keep landing the slobbering idiots when other women seem to have no trouble
at all in attracting their perfect types? Stay with me.
2am was rushing into view as Alana grabbed my elbow and slurred into my
shoulder that it was time to go home. As we stepped over bottles and around
mumbling drunks, I saw a beautiful blonde undergoing what I like to call the
“blind man treatment.” You know, when some drunken dude acts like he’s blind
and uses his hands to figure out what you look like? Alana noticed them and
giggled into my upper arm. A melodic “he, he, he.” I felt inspired to do
something for this stranger who’d been eyeing me all night.
I grabbed a
half-empty bottle of champagne and as we passed the melodic duo, I pressed the
bottle into the blonde’s hand. “You’ll need this if you plan on doing anything
with Slobbery Rob here. Next time don’t just stare at me. Say hello.” I said as
I ferried my vodka princess out to our waiting taxi.
How is it that a
beautiful woman, perfectly dressed and seemingly with all the attributes of
success strike out? A few reasons:
1. She clumped up all night with
her girlfriends. Sure, it’s great to hang out with your friends at a party.
Just understand that there’s nothing more intimidating to a guy than a group of
females. Say hello to the people at a party you know, but make it a priority to
bump into some new faces before you settle into a groove. Avoid your male
friends. Friends do stupid things when they’ve been drinking and you’re here
for new boy. Not the one who is an easy booty text away.
2. She waited. Don’t wait! The
best time to talk to that great-looking gent across the room is now. To
paraphrase a great bit of advice given to incoming college freshman, “say hello
to as many people as you can while the situation is still fresh for everybody.”
Get a fire under your cute butt and say hi to some people. If you’ve already
acknowledged him early in the evening, it’ll be very easy for your new boy to
come over and say hello (I’d arrived with Alana and was leaving the party with
her, but there was no way the blonde could have known about all the great
single guys I know! She missed out!).
3. She drank too much, too soon.
For those of you who don’t drink, this doesn’t apply as much. For those who do:
leave off the wild juice until you’ve made the rounds and said hello to some
new faces. Get drunk early and you wreck your chances at finding a great guy.
Even worse, you raise your chances of doing something you’ll regret with
Slobbery Rob at the end of the night.
If you make it a
habit to maintain an attitude of friendliness and approachability, you’ll see
your luck increase no matter where you are. That said, there’s really no such
thing as luck. Do the following:
§ Make a point to reach out to
new guys even if they don’t immediately turn you on.
§ Forget about your loneliness
and what your friends think of you in the spirit of enjoying yourself.
§ Cut yourself some slack
because there are a lot of people in the world you think are attractive who are
simply not worth your time. Don’t be bothered if he doesn’t fancy you. He loses
and you waste less time!
You’ll have a
better time at parties and discover more great guys at your breakfast table
instead of on the cover of your favorite magazine.
References:
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https://www.vingle.net/posts/2687971
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