What if
I make a wrong decision, seems to be a universal question that we all have
asked ourselves from time to time. This question often comes up when we have a
tough decision to make and either decision we make has consequences which we
perceive to be somewhat balanced, however we feel that there is truly a right
decision and a wrong decision and we fear choosing the wrong decision. Why do
we have this fear of making a wrong decision? Simple really, if we make what we
perceive to be a bad decision, then we own that decision, it’s our
responsibility, we may have to admit that we made a mistake, we may feel that
our reputation will be tarnished, etc. So instead of making a bad or wrong
decision we play mental tennis with our decisions, bouncing back and forth on
which decision is the best one to make. This type of stalling usually causes a
great deal of stress, which has an impact on our mental and physical health and
may even cause more angst in our life because delaying some decisions can
create bigger issues.
The key
to making decisions is to make one. Make your decision based on gathered facts
and projected outcome and most of all based on what your true inner voice tells
you. You know your gut feeling, your intuition. The key is to be able to
discern gut feeling from ego. Our ego often tells us to go against what we
intuitively know is right. When making a decision always go with your gut
feelings and know that even if your decision at first turns out to be the wrong
one, trust in the Universe that there are no accidents and that there is a
purpose for the decision which you chose to make.
The
bottom line is, if you listen to your inner voice and you trust in yourself,
then you know that you can’t make a wrong decision. Your decision will always
be right, even if at first it does not seem to be.
References: Monterrey Backpage
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