Theoretically, you've only got a minute or so to make
a first impression on a woman. So how do you impress a hot babe, enough to
either hook up later, or leave her wanting more than your digits? Here's what's up.
Stay loose
Above all that might happen, and is happening, you're
having a good time, loving life, and she just happens to be there. You're only
chatting her up because of location (which is why you're not asking much about
work or school, and going with the deeper topics). She'll sense your
relaxation, your sexiness, and a mysterious interest that's hard to pin down,
and she'll open up. Keep the body language casual and comfy, and be playful.
Demonstrate social capital
If you're in familiar territory, or with friends, it
should be clear to her you're well-regarded. Your best bets are places where
you're known, and if you're out of town, pop into the same hotel lounge or
eateries your entire stay. Staff or regulars will speak to you, and establish a
pleasing rapport. When asked personal questions, talk less about career and
girlfriends, and more about people you helped move, find a job, get acclimated
to a city, or get through a rough patch. A good transition into such a story
is, 'That reminds me of when...'.
Remember Her
While she's speaking, mentally remind yourself her name, if need be. Pay strict attention, that way you can revisit points in her stories, her tastes, or share a similar experience. File these things away not just for that night, but in the chance you'll see her again soon. This separates guys that are hitting on everyone from those who are really listening.Dress For Success
Few things capture immediate attention like a sporty
look. Your gear should say playboy, not office drone. Find a flattering
hairstyle, keep your fingernails neat, and work out every other day. Beautiful
girls are selective, and you want to be on the eligible list.
These principles will make you stand out and boost
your confidence.
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